This girl is trying to pin her kid on me?

Question

This girl has been pinning her kid on me. She was basically sleeping with 2 guys her bf and me. I am getting a pat test Next month . She is taking me to court instead based I'm these reasons . She rold me that she asked the doctor about her conception date the doctor told her and basically said it's mine because she told me we slept together at that time. Is she lying can the doctor really know the date the baby was conceived . I think she is pinning this on me because I am a nice guy and her ex bf is a hot head mean guy who told her to f off when she told him that she is pregnant and the baby might not be his. The thing I really hate is this girl is telling everyone that it's mine even mutal ppl that we know And I'm getting sick and tired and can't wait until the pat test.

Answer 1

There is a window. She can't say for certain unless your the only person in that window of time.



You need to be more careful who you sleep with & the protection you use obviously. The only choice you have now is to wait it out & see what the results are.



You canNOT pinpoint an exact date. Ovulation takes place "about" a certain time & then fertilization occurs & then there is a window for how long implantation can take & after THAT is when someone is actually pregnant - so if he is basing it off her last period or her 1st ultrasound, you can have up to potentially a 2 week window. If a woman is actually tracking her cycles & TRYING to get pregnant, you can be much more certain possibly about when you got pregnant. I KNOW when I got pregnant with each of my children because I was tracking my cycle & knew when I'd ovulate & all of that. Mos women do not understand or track their cycles that carefully. I used that tracking (mostly to AVOID pregnancy) for a total now of over 12yrs - so at his point I pretty much have it down. Most don't have a clue of what goes on in between & are only keeping track enough to know when they are generally supposed to start their period. It normally has nothing to do with birth control & just for being aware & not ending up stuck without a tampon somewhere.

Answer 2

The doctor can give you a pretty accurate window of conception, but that is all it is, a window. You could also have had sex before ovulation, and then concieved later when she ovulated, sperm can live for about five days hanging out waiting for the egg. The only way to resolve this is with a paternity test. You may be the most likely father, but to be sure you need that test. In the meantime keep your cool and be the bigger person, because if you are the father, you are attatched to this chick for the rest of your life, might as well practicing staying civil now.

Answer 3

Doctors can usually give a pretty accurate conception date. If I were you I would politely ask her to stop telling people about it until after the paternity test. It doesn't matter if she is taking you to court, they will order a paternity test anyways. I would stay away and not be in contact with her till the test and then pending the results you can either say I told you so or man up and take care of the kid.

Answer 4

i just had a baby and my sister has 3 my brother has 2 and my other brother is bout to have 1 the docters can give u an approximate time u got pregnant but it give or take 2 weeks.. so if she slept with him n that 2 weeks only the test will tell u for sure

Answer 5

The doctor can give her an estimated date of conception but not the exact date. There's a 2 week window. Your only to be sure is the DNA test .

Answer 6

You can't get mad, YOU had unprotected sex with her..you knew the consequences. I don't believe docs REALLY know when someone conceived they just know an estimate. But just wait for the paternity test. She sounds pretty sure of herself but the test will tell for sure. Just go with the flow til you get results.. no matter how many ppl she slept with if you were one then it's still a possibility so don't just rule it out because you don't want it to be yours.

Answer 7

tell your brother do not signal the beginning certificate until eventually a DNA attempt is executed! Mamas toddler papas perhaps! Your brother might want to not might want to help yet another mans toddler. Get a DNA attempt and do not signal the beginning certificate !

Answer 8

Get the D.N.A. test done........and stop being a pushover man