Question:
Does anyone have a 3 year old who doesn't talk much? Not a large vocabulary?
coolwestphal
2008-10-13 15:54:48 UTC
3 year old girl has been tested for everything under the sun. Still does not speak well and is also hard to potty train. I'm looking for anyother parents who have had, or who has the same issues. Please respond.
Eight answers:
Drake's Mommy
2008-10-13 16:08:47 UTC
My nephew was like that. He's almost 4 and just in the past month or so, has started saying more words, but still doesn't make complete sentences like most 4 year olds can usually do.

I wouldn't stress too much about it if you have had her tested for things like autism. I think she'll be like my nephew and eventually "get it". Just read books to her often, talk to her "just because" like tell her you are doing laundry, explain how you are sorting the colors, putting them in the washer, folding them, etc... Talk through simple processes just so she hears you talk often. Try to find fun things to do with her like make an easy food together or do some arts and crafts that might get her talking in those activities.
DEE
2008-10-13 16:07:27 UTC
Yes, my son 3 years old doesn't have a large vocabulary either. Most 1 and a half to 2 year olds have a much better vocabulary than he does. He's been tested too, and all we've been told is that he'll catch up. It's very disturbing to us as parents, we interact with him as much as we can, and try to teach him so he can catch up, we just don't know. I suppose one of our biggest fears, is getting him in school, we don't think he'll be ready at 5 years old, it's hard to deal with, we know. Potty training has been up and down with him, for months we thought he was, then he relapsed, urinating in his underwear. Now, we have to remind him to use the potty, all the time. I know it's frustrating, you're not alone, all we can do is keep working with our children. I'm sure things will eventually turn out well, I've been told that his traits will lead him to a wonderful career some day, like Engineering, whether it was BS or not, just that helped me realize that yes, he has great potential, his future will prove it.
Nuttinbtr2do
2008-10-13 16:42:35 UTC
Some kids are shy and thye have the words but chose not to use them. Does she make sounds that represent words? Like she's trying to talk but can't form the sounds? Speech pathology could help with that. Potty training is hard too. Take her in the potty every half hour and have her try, you're bound to catch her at some point succeeding, then make a big deal sooner or later she'll be peeing int he potty all the time. Pull ups hinder the process so if she is going in the toilet I would use undies. They tend to learn by this age that it's safe to pee in a pull-up and will continue to do so until it's no longer an option.
IamMom
2008-10-14 11:08:23 UTC
This is not unusual since lots of kids happen to learn later than others and some learn earlier. Being only 3 he's still trying to learn and figure these things out. I wouldn't worry too much about what other people say. If you don't talk to him about these things, who will? I think it's also a good idea to have those communication lines open with your children as most parents don't. The easiest way to communicate with kids is through play and I have found that pretend play makes it much easier. I leave you a link with pretend play toys since they have helped me a lot and these are educational too so that was a major up for me I hope that it helps you.
avonmom
2008-10-13 17:12:49 UTC
could be apraxia or aphasia. My son will be 3 in 2 weeks and just has been talking for like 4 months. basically he has trouble accessing vocabulary and making his mouth form the words. He has been in therapy for almost 10 months now and has made tons of progress.



What you should do is contact your local school system and ask for a speech evaluation. They are required by law to test to make sure that a child does not have a disability ( a speech delay could be classified as a disability if it is bad enough). if they DO have a disability, the school is required to provide them with therapy for free.
M'SMA
2008-10-13 16:04:24 UTC
Hi. My sister actually had a similar problem with my niece. She didn't speak much except the usual Dada, Mama, etc. Then one day she started speaking - in sentences! We almost had collective heart attacks! Basically, we think she was just being lazy and stored everything up until she was good and ready to talk! I think she was about two and a half years old at the time.
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2008-10-13 16:00:21 UTC
my cousin had the same problem and has autism. Sorry to not be of help but good luck (:


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