I have a three year old and have been thinking it is about time to talk about fire safety. I know to teach her not to be afraid of firemen, but I'm not sure what else. I don't think she is capable of deciding whether it is safe to go one way or another in a fire, but at the same time I'm afraid if I tell her to stay in her room, well, what if I can't get to her and she loses the opportunity to get out? On the other hand I could never leave the house until I knew she was safe, how would I know if she had gotten out or was just wandering around? Chances are, there won't ever be a fire, but I know we need to have a plan in case. We have smoke detectors too, so we should be alerted early in case. So wise parents out there, what have you told your toddlers to do in case of a fire? Stay put and either mommy, daddy, or a firefighter will come get you? Or go outside to a designated spot if there isn't fire blocking the door?